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Thursday, May 22, 2014
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "See In A New Way"
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Thursday, May 8, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Blaze A New Trail"
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Monday, May 5, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Believe In The Power Within"
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"Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle." ~Christian D. Larsen
THE FOCUS AND FLOW QUESTION:
Do you believe that there is something inside you more powerful than the obstacles in your path?
SPH SAYS:
"TAKE A DEEP BREATH, EXHALE, and...
Believe In The Power Within."
Saturday, May 3, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and..."Answer All Things With Love"
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Thursday, May 1, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Activate Your Fortitude"
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Tuesday, April 29, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Re-Affirm What You Know Is Real"
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Sunday, April 27, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and ... "Just Love And Be Loved"
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Saturday, April 26, 2014
REPOST: The Neuroscience of Focus (from blogs.psychcentral.com/mindfulness)
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Scientists John Gaspar and John McDonald from Simon Fraser University in British Columbia have recently discovered that we have an anti-distraction mode in our brain (See an overview here or the actual study here). This means that focusing on what matters moment-to-moment is not only about intentionally paying attention to something, like reading this blog post or listening to a friend, but also about suppressing all of the distractions in the background.
Why is this important to us and what can we do about it?
In this day and age where companies spend a lot of money to figure out how to get our brain to pay attention to them, we need to understand how to switch those off to reduce our overwhelm and keep our sanity.
The way technology has been going and is headed is a result of some highly refined analyses on how to get our attention. When our attention is fractured over a period of time our stress rises and we become less effective. For a while now, Los Angeles has had electronic billboards on the side of the roads. I noticed my vision often going up to them while I was driving and being more engaged for longer periods of time than a regular billboard. It felt like a bad idea for road safety. Someone took it to the courts and now they have been shut off.
“Distraction is a leading cause of injury and death in driving and other high-stakes environments,” notes senior author McDonald. “There are individual differences in the ability to deal with distraction. New electronic products are designed to grab attention. Suppressing such signals takes effort, and sometimes people can’t seem to do it.”It seems to me that another good study would be to take this new understanding and apply it to people during meditation.
For example, a simple practice like mindfulness of breath gives you an object to pay attention to, the breath. The intention is to bring attention to the breath and simply experience it as it comes in and goes out. It helps some people to say, “in” as they’re breathing in and “out” as they’re breathing out.
This is taught by mindfulness teachers all over the world. I also teach people this practice in the corporate world through an evidence-based live online program called Mindfulness at Work (only available to corporations through eMindful.com). Thousands of people have taken this program who are often practicing in cubicles with a number of coworkers talking next to them. These voices are distractions during the meditation and also while they’re working through the day. Needless to say, they’re voices they would often like to suppress.
The instruction is simple.
Consider that in any moment we have foreground and background awareness. The intention is to allow the breath to be in the foreground and the voices of the coworkers to be in the background. But inevitably the distracting voices pull attention and they come into the foreground.
That is perfectly fine.
When we become aware of that we are “mindful.” We can congratulate ourselves for waking up, note the voices and then gently allow them to go into the background of awareness while the breath comes back into the foreground.
We can do this again and again, like a gentle dance, strengthening the brain’s ability to pay attention to what we’re intending to pay attention to while it gets better and better at suppressing the sounds in the background (Note: there are also plenty of mindfulness practices that include being aware of all experience at once, but this one is a good example about working with focus).
What I’m finding is that neuroscience often tells us things we already know from experience. The people I’ve taught have noticed that they get better and better at playing with the foreground and background awareness and eventually are able to focus better often because there’s less stress around it.
Whether you are new to mindfulness or have a longstanding practice, here’s a short mindfulness of breath practice to dip in and play with foreground and background attention (Note: this a practice in The Now Effect and was originally intended for people who have the book. So you’ll notice in the video that I initially thank people for getting the book. You don’t need to have the book and the practice will start very shortly after that).
The ability to focus makes a huge difference at work and at home. Keep practicing, trusting that over time you can get better and better at mastering the focus of your mind.
Warmly,
Elisha Goldstein, PhD
PS – Learning how to gain better control over minds and in turn, our lives, is a key reason I created the new eCourse: Basics in Mindfulness Meditation: A 28 Day Program.
Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D. is author of The Now Effect
, co-author of A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook
, Foreword by Jon Kabat-Zinn, author of Mindfulness Meditations for the Anxious Traveler: Quick Exercises to Calm Your Mind
, the premier eCourse Basics of Mindfulness Meditation: A 28 Day Program, the Mindful Solutions audio series, and the Mindfulness at Work™ program currently being adopted in multiple multinational corporations. Join The Now Effect Community
for free Daily Now Moments, Weekly Updates and tips and free access to a
Live Monthly Online Event with Elisha Goldstein, PhD. He is a clinical
psychologist in private practice in West Los Angeles.
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REPOST from: http://blogs.psychcentral.com/mindfulness/2014/04/the-neuroscience-of-focus-taking-back-control-of-our-minds/
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Open Up To Life"
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“There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance."
~John Lennon
THE FOCUS AND FLOW QUESTION:
What experiences have you had when you have allowed yourself to passionately open up to life?
SPH SAYS:
"TAKE A DEEP BREATH, EXHALE, and...
Open Up To Life."
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Thursday, April 24, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Heighten Your Awareness"
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REPOST: 20 Mini-Meditations (from psychcentral.com)
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20 Calming or Invigorating Mini Meditations You Can Practice Every Day
REPOSTED FROM: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2014/03/09/20-calming-or-invigorating-mini-meditations-you-can-practice-every-day/
By
Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S.
Associate Editor
Associate Editor
No
matter how hectic or stressful our days are, whether we’re sitting at
our desks or waiting in line, we have the opportunity to pause and
adjust our perspective.
We have the opportunity to be kinder — both to ourselves and others.
We have the opportunity to relax and slow down. And we have the
opportunity to refocus. Even if it’s for a minute or two.
In her book Self-Meditation: 3,299 Mantras, Tips, Quotes and Koans for Peace and Serenity, bestselling author Barbara Ann Kipfer
offers a wealth of inspiration for practicing kindness and breathing in
the beauty of daily moments and the miracles that are our lives.
Here are 20 of my favorite suggestions from her book.
- Let small chores act as a stop sign to “breathe, relax and experience peace.”
- Sit down and “become a human still life.” Don’t do anything. Just breathe.
- When you’re driving, focus solely on that experience. “Feel the steering wheel, the pedals, the seat.”
- “Listen for the quietest sound.”
- Focus on your sense of smell. Take something you’d like to smell, such as a flower or food, and put it up close to your nose. Notice the changes in the aroma. Focus on the sensations in your body as you inhale and exhale. Then try to focus on other fragrances around you throughout the day.
- Focus on your sense of touch. Focus on the sensation of your hands touching each other, “your clothes brushing against your skin, and the air moving across your face.”
- In the beginning of the week, pick an activity you normally do on autopilot, such as washing your hands, applying makeup or getting into your car. Pause for several seconds before starting the activity. Then perform it with your full attention.
- “Imagine that you are a kite soaring in the sky. Surrender to the wind, but be aware of the string that anchors you to the ground and keeps you safe.”
- When you’re performing a chore, focus your full attention on your hands. “Note all the sensations in your fingers, your palms, and your wrists.”
- Send yourself some loving-kindness (or “metta”). Focus your attention on an aspect of your mind or body that you feel separated from. Acknowledge this. You might say something like: “May I accept this. May I be filled with loving-kindness toward this. May I use the pain of this experience for the welfare of all.”
- As you’re trying to fall asleep, “imagine that with each breath you are melting into an ocean of light and space.”
- When you turn on the faucet, focus on the bigger picture. “See the water flowing down from the glaciers and mountains, running deep into the earth, sustaining you and all life.”
- When you wake up, feel your feet touch the floor. “Be aware of their weight, the floor supporting your body, and the motion of your feet and legs as you begin to walk.”
- When you get home from work, every day, stand in front of your door and appreciate the moment. Rejoice in it. “Breathe in and out three times.”
- Set an alarm to ring every hour to remind yourself to “wake up and appreciate the miracle of every moment. Say, ‘[Your name], wake up!”
- Picture your thoughts as balloons floating by.
- Visualize a mountain lake with a smooth, glassy surface. A breeze sends ripples across the water. As the breeze quiets down, so do the ripples, and the water returns to being smooth. When something ruffles you, return to this visualization. “Feel the ripples and then let them settle.”
- Think of your mind as a swinging door. “Thoughts and feelings come in and out, like people. Be the door, not the doorman.”
- Picture a person or pet you love greatly. Imagine they’re “giving you a look that melts your heart.” Think about the things you love most about them. With each breath you take, let your heart fill with love. “Imagine your two souls connected by the caring you have for each other.”
- “See yourself as a small child, fragile and vulnerable, and breathe in. Smile with love to this small child within yourself, and breathe out.”
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Wednesday, April 23, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Declare Your Freedom"
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“This is a new day. The tide of battle has turned. Declare freedom from anything that is holding you back." ~Joel Osteen
SPH SAYS: "TAKE A DEEP BREATH, EXHALE, and...
Declare Your Freedom."
THE FOCUS AND FLOW QUESTION:
What will you free yourself from that is holding you back?
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Tuesday, April 22, 2014
TAKE A DEEP BREATH and... "Dare To Be Your Highest Self"
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“We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be.” ~May Sarton
SPH SAYS: "TAKE A DEEP BREATH, EXHALE, and...
Dare To Be Your Highest Self."
THE FOCUS AND FLOW QUESTION:
Are there aspects of your highest self that you are afraid of allowing to manifest fully?
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